This (my) book was and is our journey, with 2024 taking a turn of removal of part of Husbands pancreas.
I took over the top notes, details, it’s all here and I am very proud to be able to share it with you.
It’s one of those books I hope NO one will need, but after seeing the Doctor’s waiting rooms and the Oncology floor of the hospital…it’s here IF you need it.  In Print and eBook form and now with Prime too

A Wife’s Journey Through Partial Pancreatectomy and Spleen Removal
When my husband faced the overwhelming reality of major surgery—losing two-thirds of his pancreas and his spleen—our world shifted in ways we never could have imagined. The medical term for this surgery is a Partial Pancreatectomy with Splenectomy, and while doctors focus on the physical side of healing, we quickly realized that recovery is just as much emotional as it is medical.
Through every fear, every tear, and every moment of hope, I stood by his side, asking questions, learning as we went, and navigating a world we never thought we’d have to understand. This book is my way of sharing that journey—not just as a memoir, but as a guide for others facing the same path.
Why I Wrote This Book
Part guidebook, part how-to manual, this book dives into the medical complexities of the surgery and recovery, while also exploring the emotional battles we fought together. I cover everything from finding the right doctor and understanding testing, to the reality of potential diabetes risks and the vital role of nutrition in healing. But beyond the clinical aspects, I also share the personal side—the emotions, fears, and small victories that come with being a caregiver and a patient’s biggest support system.
If you or a loved one are facing this surgery, I hope my experiences offer understanding, encouragement, and a roadmap to navigate this unfamiliar world.
What You’ll Find Inside
Here’s a look at what this book covers:
1. Function of the Pancreas – Understanding why this organ is so vital
2. Testing – The tests you’ll encounter before surgery
3. Finding the Right Doctor – What to look for in a surgeon and medical team
4. ONE Huge Maybe… Diabetes – Understanding the risk after surgery
5. Educate Yourself – Must-know information before surgery
6. YOU MUST DO’s! – Essential steps to prepare for surgery and recovery
7. Ready, Set, Surgery Prep – What to expect leading up to surgery
8. Day of Surgery – A firsthand look at what happens on the big day
9. Pancreas Surgery Process – Robotic – How robotic surgery works
10. Surgery Process – Standard – The traditional surgical approach
11. After Surgery Room Care – What to expect in post-op recovery
12. Release Home & Home Care – The transition from hospital to home
13. Support Caregiver – Tips for those caring for a loved one after surgery
14. Normal – Follow-Ups – What recovery looks like in the weeks and months ahead
15. What’s Next? – Life after a partial pancreatectomy and splenectomy
For Patients, Caregivers, and Loved Ones

This book isn’t just for patients—it’s for the caregivers, spouses, family members, and friends who are walking this road alongside them. Even in the most uncertain times, knowledge is power, and with the right doctors, nurses, and support, you can find light in the journey toward healing.
I am not a doctor, but I am a wife who stood by her husband through every step of this experience.

Let the journey begin/continue and let’s survive
 If this book can help just one person feel less alone, more prepared, and maybe even smile along the way, then my pet project has done its job.
Beth Ann