November Holiday To Do List

Holiday Ready?!?

Okay, October went better than September,  at my house.

Here goes my November holiday to do list
My goal is to get things done…BUT not exhaust myself doing it! And I do say that with a smile…sometimes with a tear! 
Tired is the whole reason I started doing these monthly holiday lists. I don’t want to arrive in December with a hundred things left to do and wonder where the fun went.

If I can do a few things now, make a few decisions ahead of time and maybe even cross a few things OFF the list completely, December can/will have a little more breathing room.  Remember,  DO what you need on the list.
Please Do ONE thing for yourself this season:
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November is the month to finish some things, make some decisions and—most importantly—delegate! And remember my rule about delegating: If you give someone a job, you don’t get to tell them exactly how to do it. They get to do it THEIR way. Yes, I know. This one takes practice.

And one more thing before we start: You don’t have to do everything on this list. I certainly won’t. Pick what will make YOUR holidays easier, skip what doesn’t matter to you, and leave yourself a little room to actually enjoy November.

NOVEMBER To Do List

Update the Holiday Calendar – Add plans, Christmas events, school programs, church activities, parties, travel days, appointments, birthdays and anything else happening between now and the end of the year.

Send Out Info, Arrange Plans, text, phone call – Christmas gatherings, concerts, dinners or other events before calendars fill up.

 Plan Christmas Eve – New pajamas? Christmas cookies? One special gift? A favorite dinner? Decide which traditions you actually love and make those happen.

Christmas Cards – Purchase or order cards, update your address list and start addressing them. They don’t have to be mailed today—just get them ready.  We passed on them this year, costs!

Check the Gift List – See what you’ve already purchased before buying more. Fill in the missing gifts and start thinking about stocking stuffers.

Black Friday & Cyber Monday – Shop with a LIST. A bargain isn’t a bargain if you DO NOT need it in the first place!  But that coffee pot will be MINE ! !

 Have Your Own Wish List Ready – When someone asks what you want for Christmas, have an answer. Treats, books, something for quilting, an experience—or maybe something you’d never buy for yourself.

 Finish Homemade Gifts – Notice I said FINISH. November may not be the best time to decide you’re making twelve new quilts for Christmas.

Cook & Freeze – Make anything ahead that freezes well. Cookies, breads, casseroles, appetizers and other family favorites can save you a lot of work later.  I am ordering and picking up this year ! Okay to said it out loud. I am OLD !

Create a Holiday Drink Basket – Hot chocolate, marshmallows, peppermint sticks, coffee, tea and a few special treats make an ordinary evening feel a little more like Christmas.  DID this a few years ago, forgot it with everything last year and I missed it !

Start Decorating – Do a little at a time. There is no rule saying the entire house has to be decorated in one weekend.

Outdoor Lights – Put them up while the weather is nice. Check that everything works BEFORE you spend an hour hanging it.

Holiday Flowers – Watch for amaryllis, paperwhites, poinsettias or greenery. A little bit of something living makes the house feel festive without adding another box of decorations.

Support Something Local – Visit a craft show, holiday market, church sale or charity event. You might find a wonderful gift while supporting someone in your community.

Give Something Away – Donate to a food bank, choose a name from an Angel Tree or support a favorite charity. Put this on the list just like everything else so it doesn’t get forgotten.

Deep Clean the Bathrooms – Floors, grout, shower, toilets, mirrors, lights and fresh towels. Get the big cleaning done now so December only needs a quick touch-up.

Keep the Kitchen Under Control – Wipe counters, keep dishes moving and try not to let things pile up. A reasonably clean kitchen makes everything else feel easier.

And Finally…Leave Some Breathing Room – Don’t fill every day on the calendar. Leave a few evenings with NOTHING planned. Order a pizza, make some coffee, sit down, quilt, watch a Christmas movie or just do absolutely nothing.

November does not have to be about getting everything perfect. It’s about doing enough now so you enjoy December.

And one update from my old list: No need to check the snow shovel. We live in Florida now! I think I’ll check the coffee supplies instead.

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October Prep List for the Holiday’s

Start Now for Time Later

Here is my October to do list for holiday prep and…
Well…I tried…But I missed a lot of the cleaning from my September list, the rest I did pretty good with and to tell the truth…I just didn’t want to do the cleaning !

We live in a small area and have a community pool…and the season people (November to April)  are not here and every time I thought about cleaning, I put on my suit and went swimming ! Not that I don’t like the others in our area?!? But…I love my pool time…daily, without others.

I am going to TRY and start my slow-and-steady holiday approach, here is my October updated list for you !
I did this post yesterday and I did clean the lanai BEFORE writing and I feel VERY proud of myself. But, now I think I need a new plant stand on the wall in there?!?  Do a plan, draw it up, build it…well…

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October Holiday To-Do List

My goal is simple: do a little, enjoy a lot, and don’t make myself crazy!

Choose a Gift Storage Spot – Pick ONE place for gifts so you aren’t hunting for them in December. This is always a huge on for me, Husbands birthday is Dec 25… and he does look…search !

Check Your Gift List – Ask family members for their Christmas lists. Start buying when you see something that is truly right—not just because it’s on sale.

Make Your Own Wish List – Have a few ideas ready when someone asks what you want. Why is this always so hard?

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Start a Wrapping Basket – I pick these things up all year and I have a drawer in my dresser. Pick up tape, gift tags, tissue paper, boxes, ribbon and wrapping paper as you see them. Check what you already have FIRST.

Look Through Holiday Decorations – Before buying anything new, see what you already have. Toss broken items and make a short list of anything you really need.  I pick up new tree lights last December, can’t wait to use them !

Clean Out the Freezer – Do a quick inventory and make room for holiday foods. Throw out those mystery containers we all pretend we’re eventually going to eat.

Start Stocking the Pantry – Watch for sales on baking supplies, canned goods, coffee, soda, bottled water and other things you know you’ll use. We do a Dec 24, open house, need to think that through. I do better with a list and plan.

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Check Holiday Clothing – Think about Thanksgiving, Christmas parties, church, family pictures or special dinners. Does everyone have what they need?

Christmas Cards – Update addresses, decide whether you’re sending cards this year and order them if needed. Buy stamps now, too. We are letting this one go this year…cost.

Make Travel Plans – Confirm Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year’s plans. Book flights, hotels, rental cars or pet care if needed.

Deep Clean ONE Room – Mine WILL the living room. Vacuum, clean the floors or carpet, clean sliding doors, wipe down bookcases and table and make sure everything is sturdy. ONE room—not the entire house!

 Plan Something FUN – PURCHASE TICKETS NOW ! !  Look for a holiday home tour, Christmas market, concert, light display or something you’ll actually enjoy. The holidays shouldn’t be one giant to-do list. We will be alone this Holiday, kids won’t be here until after, and I know we will need something for just us.

And most importantly… 
Laugh, Love, have Grace and always be Kind, Beth Ann

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